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maya’s first birthday party

14th August 2014

This past weekend we celebrated miss Maya’s very first birthday. It was a pretty exciting and emotional day – probably more for us than for our little girl. We survived our first year of parenthood! You know I couldn’t help myself, and of course had to throw her a first birthday party, right?

I didn’t have any real “theme”, but decided to stick with the colours that were in her nursery – pink, turquoise, and gold. We had the party outside on Dan’s parents’ farm, so there wasn’t really too much decorating to do.

I pulled out our old dining room table (it’s being stored in the barn there anyway – easy!) and used it as the main dessert table. I also put up a chalkboard easel to write a little birthday message.

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A great trick is to get some wrapping paper in the colours of the party, and then use it as a table runner, like I did here. I used some double sided tape to keep it down, but as long as you have some heavier items on the table, it won’t go anywhere.

I put out my cake stands with goodies on them, and then dotted some flowers around in my gold-sprayed mason jars.
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The gold letters are from Chapters (LOVE them!), and the rest of the party supplies were either from my existing stash or Target. I find Target has great party stuff – various colour options and patterns. I got the “Hooray” cake topper, hats, and a few other things from the Oh Joy collection a few months ago.

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Here is my “make a cake look good” secret. These were plain old cakes that I baked from boxed (thank you, Duncan Hines!) – 4 layers. Then I just put them on top of one another using some icing as the “glue” (again, store bought icing), and layered the icing over the whole cake. It was looking like a lopsided mess by this point. Not pretty. But how to save it? Stick it on a pretty cake plate, pop in a topper, and put some flower buds along the bottom. I promise – it’ll look pin worthy.
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For drinks, I decided to do a little drinks station. I found a card table in the barn, and so again covered it in wrapping paper. This time from front to back, taping it along the legs of the table. We did two different fruit punches – one berry, one orange/mango – in the dispensers. Then I set out a bunch of different fruit (blueberries, rasberries, sliced peaches, strawberries, etc), some club soda, and wine (white + rose), so that people could make their own cocktails. With a bunch of kiddos and breastfeeding mamas in the group, I wanted to have fun non-alcoholic options.

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The wine and beer was kept on ice in some fun, vintage buckets.

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I had looked up different games and activities for a first birthday party and the only thing that really caught my eye was a time capsule. I loved that idea, and paired it with a polaroid wall.

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For the time capsule, I grabbed a wood box from the dollar store and painted the top turquoise and wrote “Maya’s Time Capsule” with sharpie marker. Then I had small cards and pens ready for the party guests to all write down a little note to put into the capsule.DSC_0491

We sealed it shut, and Maya will get to open it on her 18th birthday. It’s hard to even imagine that birthday in 2031! After the party, I also added in some of the trinkets from the day, and the front page of the newspaper.
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Behind the time capsule table was the polaroid wall. I went through our photos of Maya from this past year, and pulled out the ones that demonstrated “firsts” of some kind. Then I used PicMonkey to put a polaroid lens on them and add the text, describing what that first was. I had them printed in 4×6, and just tacked them up onto the wall.
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They ranged from first steps, to first swim, to first hotel stay, to first time having a diaper change in the trunk of the car. It was so fun to do! I think I’ll include these into some kind of book for her down the road.DSC_0496

As for the party itself, it was low key and fun. We did the usual activities – like birthday cake!

Here we are bringing out Maya’s personal cake. She was standing up in her high chair with excitement. Ha!

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It was her first time having cake, so after some curious looks as to what this big thing was, the girl didn’t hold back. It was HILARIOUS.

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Everybody was so generous and brought some lovely gifts. Taking the paper out of the bag was of course the highlight for her. DSC_0684

It was just so nice to sit and relax on a perfect, sunny day with so many of our friends and some family (we saw my family the day before at a wedding, and will be seeing Dan’s family next week, so it was mostly a friends affair).

I had won a gift card to Just Play Toy Rentals – a company here in Ottawa that rents toys for all kinds of occasions. I got a variety of things (tunnels, race cars, etc) and they were a total hit. I absolutely recommend them for any local folks!
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Oh and the swing set at the farm? So perfect for kids of various ages.

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And the cows. Man those things provide great entertainment.

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That was it! Couldn’t have been better. I threw a bunch of labels on the photos below — you know, for Pinterest purposes.

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Happy first birthday, my darling girl! We are so lucky to have you. This year has been full of joy, laughs, goofy grins, and adventures as a family of three. You sure do keep us on our toes! We love you.

top ten tips to support a new mom

top 10 tips to support a new mama

6th August 2014

I have been meaning to write this post forever, but somehow it kept slipping. Since Maya is almost a year old (!!), it was about time I got around to it. After having Maya, and having such amazing friends and family around, I definitely learned a thing or two about how best to support new parent. These are my top 10 tips to support a new mom.

Oh – If you’re not a super good friend of this new Mum then you might not feel comfortable with all of these (laundry, cleaning house, etc), but if this is your good gal pal, know that she will REALLY appreciate it, AND will return the favour when you are the one with spit up on your shirt and have been up all night.

Also an acknowledgement >> This was written from MY perspective: as a new mum, having given birth, and with a partner who went back to work when the baby was a few weeks old. Most of this advice can also be applied to new Dads, adoptive parents, or families of any variety – but I just wanted to acknowledge the lens with which this post was written.

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1 >> Bring a meal for the fridge/freezer

If you think it’s a pain to cook dinner for yourself, just imagine what it’s like to cook when you have just become a parent and have this new little being around who needs attention 24/7. It basically falls to the bottom of the priority list. Dan and I received some delicious meals from friends and family during those first 6 or 8 weeks that made SUCH a difference. Finding time to cook (or even grocery shop) in those early days is really tricky, and you basically just want to plop down on the couch whenever you have some downtime anyway, so having ready-to-go meals is a lifesaver. And you can freeze pretty much anything (burritos, stir frys, cooked rice, pasta sauces, etc). So if you are going over to meet a new baby for the first time, bring a balanced meal. My go-to is often a couple of quiche that the parents can stick in the oven and pair with some salad or fresh veggies for a nutritious meal.

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< Maya getting her first checkup, the night of her birth >  

2 >> Wait to be asked, and don’t stay for longer than 2 hours

As a new parent, you are exhausted, and visiting with people is tiring too. Even though you (the friend) might want to dash over the second the baby is born to get a peek, don’t. Just wait until the parent(s) have had a second to settle in and have invited you over. I know for us, with the challenging breastfeeding/pumping stuff that was going on, I just wasn’t in a headspace to invite anyone over for the first 10 days or so.

Once you do go over for a visit, even though you are probably just sitting on the couch chatting and coo’ing over the baby, anything past 2 hours can feel long. Make sure you don’t overstay your welcome – you don’t want your visit to have caused your mummy friend to feel even more tired than she already is.

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< A moment of peace in the midst of a day of breastfeeding and pumping struggles > 

 

3 >> Hold the baby and let her take a shower

So when you’re a new mum and often at home by yourself with the baby, there tend to be very few opportunities to shower. If your baby sleeps well in a crib, then maybe you can squeeze one in during a nap, but you might also be totally exhausted and just want to rest while baby sleeps. And often newborns like to be held or worn (ie. baby carrier) when they are snoozing, so you can’t really hop in the shower then. During those first weeks with Maya, I basically only ever showered when someone else was there – usually Dan or my Mum. Eventually I showered when she was sitting in her bouncy chair (in the bathroom so I could glance at her every now and then!) and later got into the habit of showering during one of her morning naps once she was cool to be solo in her bassinet. If you’re visiting a friend with a new baby, offer to hold them and let the Mum have a decadent 20 minute shower all on her own. Even if the baby is crying – just deal. Your pal will thank you for the total luxury you bestowed on her – believe me.

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< Nana and a sleepy Maya > 

 

4 >> Tell her how great she looks

After going through labour, getting used to my body post-baby, and only getting sleep in small spurts, I was not feeling all that awesome about my appearance. I know it really doesn’t matter (everyone is going to be looking at the new, sweet baby anyway!), but it does take a toll on your confidence. So even if your friend has huge bags under her eyes and spit-up in her hair, tell her just how great she looks.  She’ll probably laugh it off, but it will make her feel good. Promise.

 

5 >> Make the tea

Don’t expect that your new mama friend is necessarily going to think of offering you a drink or snack when you get there. If she remembered to brush her hair, that’ll be plenty. So put on the kettle for you both or pour some juice, and maybe bring a snack to share.

 

6 >> Throw the laundry in

Carrying a laundry basket up and down stairs and throwing the laundry in isn’t really top priority for a new mum, and can be tricky if there has been a c-section, a babe who likes to be held all the time, etc. If you’re going to be there for an hour or two, why not throw in a load when you arrive and go change it over part-way through your visit? It seems like a small thing, but it might be that chore on her “to do” list that has been nagging her. My mum seemed to do all of our laundry every time she would come over for like the first two months – it was so luxurious not to have to think about it!

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< spending time on the couch – what I did most during those first weeks > 

 

7 >> Tidy up

I’m not talking about doing a big deep clean on your pal’s whole house, but if you notice that the dishes have piled up, or the bathroom could just use a wipe-down, why not take 10 or 15 minutes out of your visit and do it for her? She will be hugely grateful. I remember feeling way too tired and overwhelmed to clean the house, but it totally bothered me when it was untidy or dirty. We brought dinner over to some new parent friends the other day and made sure to do the dishes afterwards, wipe down the kitchen, and take the garbage and recycling out.

 

8 >> Leave the house

This one isn’t going to be for every situation, perhaps the new Mum is rocking her PJs and just wants to hang at home, but sometimes new mums can be having serious cabin fever but are a bit anxious about going out with the baby alone. Help her pack the baby up into the stroller or even in the car for a big outing (!), and go out with her. She’ll feel great after doing it, and will feel more confident with you there to help her. Even just a trip to the local mall or park is a big deal.

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< my first post baby walk to the coffee shop >

9 >> Be understanding of your new friendship

Having a baby means that the dynamics of your relationships change. When you may have been able to go out easily for dinner and drinks, or to a workout class, or whatever, it’s more tricky when baby comes along. Just be understanding that she may need to schedule dates with you around naptimes, or that she might need to cancel at the last minute if she’s having a tough day with baby. It’s frustrating, but just be understanding. If you are a friend from out of town and you used to chat on the phone on a regular basis, understand that even if you don’t have that regular phone date like you used to, your pal still loves you! Even though she cares about you and really does want to know what’s going on in your life, talking on the phone during that fairly brief naptime or after the kiddo has finally gone to bed can feel exhausting. Maybe text or email with her instead in the meantime – that way she can answer at her own pace (like at the 4am feed).

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< one of my best girlfriends coming over for some auntie snuggles > 

10 >> Tell your friend what an amazing parent they are

When you are a new parent, it is overwhelming and you really don’t feel like you know what you are doing. I’m someone that has grown up with children all around me, and have always been really maternal, and I felt so ridiculously anxious when Maya was first born. Like had no appetite, knots in my stomach, and felt nauseous with anxiety. I thought I would be cool as a cucumber and instead I worried that I was doing everything wrong and just felt like a fish out of water. Tell your friend what a wonderful parent they are. I promise they will appreciate it.

 

So that’s it! I guess the most important thing of all is just to be there for your friend – however she may need you. Becoming a mum is such a life-altering thing and to have support around you, particularly in those early days, is huge.

Do you mums (and Dads?) agree with this list? Anything you would add? Anything anyone ever did for you that was particularly helpful? 

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my weekend according to instagram

5th August 2014

If you guys follow me on instagram, you will have noticed that there was a wedding, girlfriends, and anniversary celebration all packed in there this past weekend.

When I was at Queen’s University for my undergrad, I lived with five girlfriends. It was way, way too much fun, and I love them all dearly. Can you believe that it took us seven years to have a full reunion? There have been times that all but one have been together (two weddings and some birthday celebrations), but it took until my girlfriend Renita’s wedding in Toronto this past weekend to get all six of us. We had about 24 hours together and we made it count.

First – the gorgeous bride and handsome groom. You can tell it was a fun wedding, hey?

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A selfie, of course. I have some serious crazy eyes going on (how does one eye look SO much bigger than the other?!), but I still love the photo. There is a lot of happiness going on here.

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Here were five of us waiting pre-wedding. It was raining reaaaally heavily outside, where the wedding was supposed to take place, so just after this photo we kicked things into high gear and helped transform the hallway into a wedding alter. #lastminuteweddingplanners

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Luckily the rain let up after the ceremony though and we walked over a simply gorgeous reception. The first dance was lovely, but you should’ve seen the dancing going on on this floor into the wee hours of the morning. There were live Caribbean drummers and just a whole lot of shaking.

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We were slightly obsessed with documenting our reunion. #360. (We lived at 360 Brock Street in Kingston back in the day).

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Oh and this guy was a total star. The other fellas weren’t able to make it, so Danny was at a table with all of us ladies. Luckily though, he is pretty used to our constant chatter and giggles – he was around back in the Queen’s days and just gets it. Ha!

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The next day, we got our tired butts out of bed and strolled around Yorkville in Toronto. Besides getting coffee, our priority was getting ourselves to anthropologie. So much love for that store.

This fixture was hanging from the second floor. You could totally DIY a smaller version of this by dipping some paint sticks or shims into a few different colours of paint and hanging them from something like a piece of driftwood.

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I always get such inspiration from the patterns and colours in anthro. All of this dishware and the painted chairs had me at hello.

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And of course getting into the change room and trying things on is way more fun with girlfriends around. None of us walked out empty handed.

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After enjoying the rest of the day together, we sadly had to part ways. Most of the girls were headed back home to Vancouver. I was feeling pretty blue, but luckily Dan and I had some more celebrating to do over the weekend – our 3rd wedding anniversary! Our actual anniversary isn’t until tomorrow, but since Maya was staying with my parents, we decided to tack on the extra night and celebrate.

We stayed at a boutique Inn in Picton – which was on the way home from Toronto – called The Manse. It’s an old stone building that has been totally renovated and has the most gorgeous landscaping.

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Dan was a super clever husband and called ahead to have flowers in our room for me. Well played, honey.

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We didn’t really leave the Inn – it was just too nice! The chef is AMAZING and so we had dinner there in the dining room. It was 3 courses of heaven. And then the next morning, after another delish meal for breakfast, we just lounged around by the pool and hot tub. Pretty blissful.

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After 3 nights of being away from Maya (longest ever!), we were pretty giddy to come home to her. I don’t think she really missed us one bit – she was having way too much fun with Nana and Grandpa – but we gave her some extra squeezes and snuggles last night anyway.

Do you guys have any little roadtrips planned for this summer? Did you do anything special this past weekend? Any weddings to go to? Oh and if you want a glimpse into what I’m up to, follow me here on instagram!

 

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furniture redo: a navy and gold dresser

1st August 2014

We basically just needed one piece of furniture for the bunkie, besides bunk beds, and that was a dresser.

I searched the online used sites for quite a few weeks, but it was tricky as the dresser had to be a fairly specific size that didn’t seem to be popular. I was spotting either really tall, narrow dressers (“tallboys”) or long, large dressers. I needed something in between, but not as small as a nightstand. And I didn’t want anything too ornate or with french country lines. Oh, and it had to be solid wood. No laminate. After a while, I finally spotted a fairly basic, solid wood dresser for $50 and snatched it up.

I totally forgot to take a before photo (bad blogger!!), but I knew exactly what colour I wanted to paint it for our by-the-lake bunkie. Can you guess?

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Ha. Navy probably isn’t too surprising, huh?

The colour is called Fly by Night Blue by Valspar, which my Mum and I picked up when we were down at the Lowe’s in the States. It’s a paint & primer in one (semi gloss) that is meant for furniture and other high use areas.

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My mum painted it and in the end did 3 coats, with a light sanding between each. The glossiness of the paint did show some of the imperfections in the wood, which is a bit annoying. It’s really only visible in certain bright light though, so it really isn’t the end of the world. Not sure if I would use this paint again for a similar application, though..

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For the hardware, I wanted to go with brass. I am smitten with a navy + brass combo. Classic, don’t you think?

I hit up Lee Valley Tools (my go-to place for hardware) and came across these small rectangular antique brass pulls (“A” in the link). They were $3.70 a piece, so it was under $30 for all six.

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And here is the full dresser in all its navy + brass glory. This was when we first brought it into the bunkie (sneak peak at some of the other accessories!)…
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And once we hung the mirror and started to style it a little.
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Have you guys been re-doing any furniture lately? Where do you go to get new hardware? Oh, and happy long weekend to my fellow Canadians. We’re off for a girlfriends wedding today and tomorrow in Toronto, and then spending a night at a beautiful Inn in Prince Edward County on Sunday for our wedding anniversary. 3 nights without Maya – our longest stretch ever. We’re like giddy teenagers over here.

 

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house reno: a progress update

31st July 2014

There has been a flurry of activity over at our house in these last few weeks. My last update – here - was after they had gutted the interior of the house. Well, a lot has happened on our house renovation since then.

First they peeled off all the brick. It filled a whole dumpster worth – which can actually be ground up and used as fill again, so it’s a “clean” dumpster – but not before I grabbed a brick to save as a keepsake. Not sure what I’ll do with that yet. Maybe use it as a bookend?

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They were waiting on the excavation, so in the meantime got started with framing the second story. It’s only on the existing bungalow, so it looks rather tall and lopsided at the moment. Once the new garage is there (to the left of the house) with a second story above it, it’ll all make more sense.

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Speaking of the garage, the excavators came and tore up our old free-standing one. Apparently there is a video of it coming down on our contractor’s phone. Need to hunt that down!

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It has meant that our backyard all of a sudden feels SO much bigger. Sure there are piles of construction material back there, but we are totally starting to envision the potential.

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After the garage came down, they took down a large tree that was in between us and our neighbour’s place. It was really starting to intrude on their house, and there was no room for our new garage with it there, so it had to come down.

And then a bunch of digging went on. All the way around our existing house to fix the foundation and put in weeping tile and draining systems (all of the old weeping tile had disintegrated), and then also to pour the new foundation for the garage.

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On the inside, the new ceiling/floor system for the second floor started to go up, and a few new windows and doorways were cut.

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As of this week they have poured the footings for the new foundation and back deck, and are working on the drainage systems around the house. Things are a-moving! I really can’t wait to start to get that garage up and see our vision start to come together.

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a day at the beach: family photo shoot

29th July 2014

A few weeks ago, Dan, Maya and I headed off to the beach (Britannia Beach in Ottawa, for you local folks) and had a family photo shoot. Before I get to those ones though, I am taking a little step back down memory lane. Here is Maya at our first family photo shoot — she was 5 months.

{Photos by Baby & Belly}

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I swore I wasn’t going to do “baby in a bucket”. And yep … here is the baby in a bucket. Whoops. Just too darn cute.343A2420

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I love her “what the … ?!” face in the photo below.
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It is wild to think about how much she has grown, learned, and developed in just these last 6 months. The baby is disappearing, and a toddler is emerging.

{Photos by Michelle Ma Belle Photography}
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“Give me those bubbles, Mum!”

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I wasn’t sure what we should all wear for the photos, so kept it simple in light neutrals. I think it’s a pretty safe bet. Oh and I brought a few props along with us — a blanket to sit on in the grass, some of Maya’s books, and the bubbles.gemma021

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The photographer was Michelle from Michelle Ma Belle Photography. Michelle is also a mum and so totally gets how to photograph with kiddos. She is easy going, fun, and has great ideas. I felt like it was going to be super awkward out in public taking photos (our other shoot was in a studio, and 99% of just Maya), but it was totally chill. Michelle made us feel at ease, and I hardly even noticed the other folks at the beach.

It was a hot day, Maya hadn’t napped in the car ride over so was on the cranky side, and Dan had taken his air cast off his leg and was hopping around on crutches (and would then throw the crutches to the side for the photo) — and Michelle was just totally helpful and relaxed. I can’t say enough good things about her!

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Isn’t she a great photographer? I love the way they turned out. And just an FYI that this post was in no way sponsored – I just wanted to share my experience!

Have you guys done any photo shoots? I try to snap lots of photos of Maya, but as she gets older, I get worse about it. It’s nice every once in a while to get some really great ones by a professional. Plus, then Dan and I get to be in them too! I’d love to do some with the grandparents at some point. 

 

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snaps of summer

25th July 2014

I would probably rate Fall as my favourite season overall (how can you not love the sweater weather, changing leaves, and pumpkin spice lattes?), but summer is pretty darn glorious too. July and August filled with long weekends and holidays in the water, playing outside, and eating too many popsicles. This summer seems to be whipping by, and I have been feeling a bit desperate for things to slow down. I don’t think I mentioned on here that Dan broke his foot? One of his metatarsals during an ultimate game – he jumped for the disc and then landed on his foot weird. Oh, and he did this just a few days after coming home from Poland where he was for 3 weeks with work. Awesome. As you can imagine, I was really trying to be sympathetic about his foot, but I was a little grumpy about the lack of help with Maya. Anyway, he is off the crutches now and just in an aircast, so things are feeling more back to normal.

Between Dan being away and then healing, and our house renovation stuff keeping us busy, It feels a little bit like we are trying to play catch up with the summer. I want to make sure we are using the rest of our weekends trying to do as many summer activities as we can – picnics, cottaging, etc.

We were able on the Canada Day long weekend to get out to my family’s cottage. Dan hobbled around and we read, visited with family, Maya played in a “pool” (ie. rubber boat filled with water from the hose), did some boating, and visited the local Kenney Hotel (on the Rideau system).

It was Maya’s first time to the cottage since she was an itty bitty thing, so it definitely more fun this time around for her.

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As you might imagine, I have totally turned into that typical mum when it comes to sunscreen. I don’t want that little girl’s skin exposed for even a second. We have bought a UV resistant bathing suit for her – with full arms and legs! – and I lather on that sunscreen like it’s nobody’s business.

When Aveeno sent me a sample of some of their baby sunscreen recently – their Baby Sunscreen Lotion SPF 55 – I was game to give it go. It has a nice flip lid that makes it easy to get the sunscreen out and not end up all messy and everywhere. The consistency was nice and thick but not at all greasy, and went on Maya’s skin really smoothly. It left a bit of a white layer, but not much of one, and it could have just been because I am super generous with the application. It doesn’t have a smell, and it’s waterproof – perfect for days on the lake.DSC_0422

Not much squirming. She helped me rub it in, and seemed to dig the packaging, too.
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I can definitely feel more at ease having her skin exposed, when I know that she has a good layer of protection on.

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Here was her first taste of ice cream. Not surprisingly, the girl LOVED it. I had to polish it off quickly as she just wanted to get her sticky paws all over my cone. #mummydoesn’tliketoshareDSC_0436

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These two. Kills me.

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The Aveeno baby sunscreen has been a great product for us over these sunny summer days. I have been using it daily, and still haven’t run out! One thing I will mention is that I am very picky when it comes to products for Maya. I try to stick with the more natural, environmentally friendly products as much as I can. It’s hard to know all of the ingredients that can be listed in shampoos, creams, etc. but I try to steer clear of certain things that I have heard negative things about. One of those things are parabens. I noticed that in the Aveeno Baby Suncreen SPF 55 there were some parabens listed (but interestingly, not in their kids sunscreen). I reached out to Aveeno about it, and they provided an excellent response that really put my mind at ease. Parabens are naturally occurring preservatives (are found in things like mangos and blueberries) and there are a bunch of different types. They are used in products like sunscreen because they can ensure bacteria and fungi aren’t able to grow, and help guarantee a product’s freshness and quality. Even though the levels of parabens in the Aveeno products are present at really low levels – far under the European Union, U.S., and Health Canada regulations – they have been keeping informed about the science and public dialogue about parabens, and are going to give parents complete peace of mind by phasing out the use of parabens in the baby care products by 2015.

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Have you guys been enjoying the summer so far? Taking any holidays? Cottaging? Are you good about putting on that sunscreen? I used to be terrible, but especially now that Maya is here, I have gotten so much better about putting it on myself. I just use some self-tanner too, to have that summer ‘glow’ (but try to steer clear of the Jersey Girl orange…!).

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the cottage bunkie: interior finishes

23rd July 2014

So you saw the other day the exterior finishes we chose for the workshop-turned-bunkie at our lake. Now I’ll get into what we’ve got going on for the cottage bunkie interior finishes.

Remember, it looked like this?

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As a workshop, this space had never been drywalled, so we were really starting from scratch. To make it a little easier on my parents and staying true to a traditional cottage look, we went with a beadboard for the walls. The beadboard is usually made of MDF and comes in large sheets (around 4×8). They come primed white, but you do need to paint them (even if you’re going for white).

I don’t have the link for the exact size we used, but they were similar to these ones from Lowes. Like the patio door, my parents bought these from Lowes in the States as it was cheaper than the same version in Canada.

I won’t get into nitty gritty about the installation as I wasn’t there during that phase (!!), but here is how it looks afterwards. Pretty light and lovely, hey?

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On the ceiling, my parents found a ceiling plank product. They aren’t actually wood, but they came in planks and once up, totally look like painted wood (these are they). They don’t seem to be available online, but I’m sure you could find something else similar on the site.

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My mum painted the walls white, and the ceiling a light grey. The colours were from the Martha Stewart line at Home Depot, but sadly they no longer carry the Martha paint. They had discontinued it last summer when we went in, but since I had the Martha swatches that we had chosen already, Home Depot just colour matched it to a different line of paint. I don’t think they even have the swatches anymore though. Bummer – I loved her colours.

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The new paint instantly made the space feel light and bright. There is something about the combination of white walls and a coloured ceiling that I am crazy about.

For the floors, I knew I wanted to go with something light and beachy. We are at the lake, after all. We came across this laminate at Home Depot, and loved it.

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It’s by Kaindl and was called ‘Chelsea Hickory’, but when I was looking up a link, I couldn’t find it. It seems like the ‘Hickory Chelsea’ (reversed) that is now in the Kaindl collection is a completely different colour (here). Seriously, everything in this post is no longer! The ceiling planks, Martha Stewart paint lines, and now this flooring. A bunkie curse?

Anyway, the floor is a beautiful grey, without pink or purple undertones, and screams beach house. Like any laminate, it was fairly easy to install with a click floating system. Once it was in, I was even more in love.The colour is perfection, and the quality is really pretty good. Doesn’t feel like one of those bouncy laminates like you used to get. If I can find it again, you can bet that I might use in our renovated house (the loft maybe?).

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The small overhead lights at each bunk were only $7 each from Lowe’s (these).

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They are called the ‘Portfolio Wall Lantern’ and are meant for outdoors, but I liked the way they had a cottage vibe with the jar cover, and thought the matte black finish would be a nice grounding element in the space.

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We grabbed 4 of them – one for each bed. Dimmer switches for each were installed, so someone can keep reading after others have gone to sleep. Pretty clever, if you ask me.

So walls, ceilings, and floors. Check. Next up? What bunkie is complete without bunk beds?

You guys doing any cottage decorating this summer? I am feeling totally inspired by the coastal vibe lately. Everything is coming up white, weathered wood, black, and indigo. Can’t. get. enough.

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CIL Paint Giveaway

21st July 2014

Are you itching to do a project around the house? Definitely the fastest and easiest way to fix up a space or piece of furniture is to give it a fresh coat of paint. Seriously, works wonders. Sometimes you can get into a bit of a paint paralysis situation where you deliberate and deliberate on what colour to go for – I have been known to do this for sure – but it’s always best to just bite the bullet and go for it. After all, it’s only paint.

The bunkie has been painted (more on that soon!), and my Mum and I also just decided to take on re-doing my room in our cottage as well. So painting that room is up next for us there!

Do you need some paint for your next project? CIL Paints has offered 3 free gallons of paint to one lucky reader! You can find CIL in Canada at The Home Depot, Rona, Walmart, Canadian Tire, and at independent stores across Canada. You can check out their “Stop Paint Paralysis” campaign here – you can sign up to get 20% off your paint purchase!

Here is a gorgeous room for inspiration – the back of the built ins is painted in Peking Blue (56BG 23/355*) by CIL Paint.

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Contest open to Canadian residents only. Contest closes on Friday July 25th 2014. Enter using the RaffleCopter widget below.

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What would you use the paint on? Is there a room in your pad that is desperate for a new coat of paint? Maybe a piece of furniture that needs re-doing? What colour would you choose?

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Etsy is going on a road trip

18th July 2014

This is more of a local post, but for any of you from the Ottawa,. Kingston, Toronto or Montreal and areas, listen up. Etsy.com is hitting the road and embarking on its first ever road trip!

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You know I love all things Etsy - an online marketplace full of amazing handmade and vintage goods – so an Etsy roadtrip just sounds like one amazing time. There are going to be local sellers, live music, and food trucks at each stop.

They are making their stops between August 1-9. You can check out all the deets – like which local sellers will be there, who will be in concert, and which food trucks you can sample – here.

Oh, and don’t forget that I still have my summer sale up on my Etsy shop. Buy 2 prints, and get a 3rd free. Just let me know in the “message to seller” which third print you’d fancy! I’m putting up new prints weekly, so keep checking back for new stuff.

Here is one my latest..

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Do you guys have a favourite road trip memory or vacation photo? Share it on Instragram or Twitter and hashtag #etsyroadtrip for a chance to be highlighted on Etsy.com. Going to any other craft fairs or festivals this summer?